Relationships are always a happy experience.
Well, until things start to go bad.
That’s when a beautiful relationship can actually bring your life to a standstill and trick you into a world of complications and pain.
Are you in a relationship where you’re not experiencing the happiness you think you deserve?
If you think it, there’s a good chance that it’s true.
The funny thing about relationships is that it’s all in your head.
A relationship is over when you think it’s over.
If you’re not as happy as you think you should be in a relationship, you should let go even if you still love that person. [Read:WHEN SHOULD YOU LET GO OF A RELATIONSHIP?]
It’s that simple really.
You’re not being selfish. You’re doing both of you a favor.
It’s always better to let go of a bad relationship than hold on when you see no happiness at the end of the tunnel.
If you want to understand the different ways to let go of a relationship, use these nine steps and follow the way.
1. If you want to let go of someone you love, you have to understand the real reasons behind why you think your relationship is making you unhappy. The question is Why should it end?
2. If you’re in a relationship where you’re doing all the work while your partner is just coasting along on the ride, that’s never a good sign. If you are willing to take a chance, give your relationship one last chance to fix it. The question is Can you fix it?
3. Don’t try too hard to bring the old romance back. It’s not worth it. Love should be effortless and mutual, and even if you try to force it, it’ll just slip away again, causing you more pain. Don’t Coerce Love! [Read:SIGNS HE'S NOT JUST INTO YOU]
4. Ask yourself why you’re holding on to a relationship where you see no future in it? Are you still in love or are you just afraid of being single again? The question is Is it love or fear?
5. Breaking up is never easy i know but you have to go. And it takes courage to take a decision that can make such a big change in your life. We all love stability in our lives, even if it’s a bad life. But just because you’re getting used to a certain routine doesn't mean it’s a good thing for you. Be courageous!
6. Prepare yourself for the loneliness and the pain after breaking up, especially if you still have a soft spot for this person. To face loneliness is one of the hardest things but you’ll never really know what life has in store for you unless you take that bold step. Be Strong.
7. Write a list of reasons on a piece of paper and look at it now and then, until you’re completely convinced so you don’t regret it or go back on your words again. Unless you’re convinced about your decision, it’ll only leave you confused and sad. Accept your decision completely.
8. If you’re sure you don’t want to be in a relationship with your lover, you have to learn to face the end. Once you’re sure you have the strength to let go of the relationship, end it. I say "End the relationship!"
Letting go of a relationship can seem very difficult when you look your partner in the eyes for that final conversation, but as soon as you speak up and walk away from your new ex, you’ll feel a heavy burden lift itself off your chest.
If you feel like ending a relationship because it’s draining the energgy happiness out of your life, remember these tips on how to let go of a relationship to help you walk away happier and lead a better life. -->
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