There are several reasons why a man may actually end up having an affair with another woman. Here are 27 reasons that could lead a man to stray into another woman’s arms.
1. Respect: If a man truly cares about his relationship the way he cares about his own life, he’d avoid doing anything that may jeopardize it. For a relationship to succeed, a man needs respect from his woman and a woman needs unconditional love from a man. If the woman doesn't respect him, he’ll fall for someone who respects him. A man may cheat when he believes that he’s not getting the respect he deserves from his woman.
2. Problems in the relationship: When arguments crop up all the time with no conclusive happy endings to the fight, it may leave both of you frustrated. The question is Do you and your man argue often?
3. Frustrations: A man who’s frustrated in life for any reason at all could jump into another woman’s arms just to convince himself that he’s still awesome and can get what he desires.
4. To get back at his woman: Sometimes, even if it’s the dumbest thing to do, a man will use revenge sex to get back at his wife or girlfriend for something she’s done.
5. Too much control over him: Are you a control freak who loves having everything under control? Does your man usually do whatever you suggest? Does he back away from any conflict with you? He may go looking for an affair just to be manly.
6. He thinks the relationship won't last: A guy usually has a backup girlfriend in mind just in case things don’t work out between the both of you, even if he tells no one else about it. It’s usually a friend who’s attractive and rather friendly. And at times, this backup girl may just end up taking your place in between the sheets.
7. He wants more Love: Sometimes, a man’s heart wants all the love it can handle. And that may happen to include more than the love of just one woman. If he’s a romantic Casanova he may try to woo women all the time, just to feel good about all the love he experiences in the world.
8. He doesn't want to be Committed : A lot of guys have the fear of commitment. And just when they feel like they’re falling deeply in love, they pull back or they have an affair just to convince themselves that they’re not into you.
9. They want variety: All of us want new experiences all the time, but some selfish and immature men take this adage one step too far and start looking at other women as wooing potentials, not because they’re unhappy in love, but because they want more variety in their bed!
10. He wants a new experience: A guy may be the most loyal of lovers, and he may be the perfect boyfriend or husband. But at times, for no reason at all, he may start pursuing a new girl just to remember how the thrill of the chase feels like. If both of you start to feel bored in the relationship, it’s only a matter of time before one of you start straying just to make life feel more exciting.
11. Some men loves to cheat: It’s who they are. And there’s nothing you can do to change them. It could be a deep rooted psychological issue, or perhaps they just don’t care about relationships.
12. Understanding: There can be happiness in a marriage or a relationship only when there’s communication in a relationship. If your man feels like you just don’t understand him anymore, he may find himself getting attached to someone else who listens to him.
13 You’re boring: Are you a prude who doesn't like discussing sex? Or are you a homely woman who loves her solitude? If your man has an active lifestyle and you don’t share an interest in socializing or having fun outside the house, he may start to find you too boring to stay in love with.
14. You accuse him of cheating: Do you constantly accuse your man of cheating just so he can reassure you and convince you of his love for you? Don’t ever let your insecurity get the better of you unless you have conclusive proof, or you’d just end up forcing him into an affair because he thinks you don’t trust him anyway.
15. A girl is crazy about him: When a really attractive girl falls for a guy and pleads with him to date her or bed her, a man’s macho heart may soften and get mushy, and he may even share a few kisses or cuddles in bed just to make her feel better.
Men and women cheat for almost the same reasons. I’d say that men cheat more for sexual pleasure and sexual experiences while women cheat more for emotional attachment. -->
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