This is not meant to offend anyone. Someone else may find it helpful.
Please read carefully and share it with others just like i've done. It doesn't matter if you
are Married or Not.
The rate at which marriages collapse now is assuming a social
status symbol in our society. In no-time, people will be
throwing divorce parties & inviting friends & well wishers to
celebrate their divorce anniversaries; they will choose
aso-ebi (a Nigerian custom dress during wedding), hire a hall and popular musicians & what have you.
Asking a question like "So when are u getting divorced?" will
become common.
If you know you can't handle the weight & pressures
of marriage, please remain single. If you don't know what marriage
is all about, please remain single until you do. If you are getting
married because of the things you desire or hope to gain from
your partner, please remain single. If you know you can't be
faithful, please remain single. If you can't endure insults from one
another, please remain single. If you can't forgive each other,
please remain single. If you can't place your spouse above
every other human being, please remain single! [Read:
BEING SINGLE] Don't get married out of desperation. "All my friends are getting married" is the
most foolish reason to get married! If you desire a successful
home, but your choice of friends are forces not to reckon with,
think again. Be very mindful of where you go for advices, Many
would give, but not many mean well.
Guys, if u know u can't put your wife ahead of your ego, please remain single till you mature.
Your wife is your priority and EVERYTHING else including you, comes
last. You are the teacher, the guide, the bodyguard & the role model.
You are not a deity or God, so do not expect to be worshiped.
You need respect, earn it by being responsible!
Ladies, if you know you can't be submissive please don't go into marriage so you are
not turned into a punch bag! If you know you can't stand being
corrected Mr/Mrs ITK (I TOO KNOW), please remain single. Ladies
check your domestic (like Cooking, e.t.c) score card, if your score is 0, please stay in your
parents house and learn!
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