If you’re not sure how to ask a girl out, you have no reason to feel silly about it.
Every guy’s been there at least once in their lives! Sometimes, it takes a risky plunge to master an art.
And all of us have to start somewhere, don’t we? Sometimes, you may not realize it yourself that you’re falling for a girl, and almost always, it may be a good friend of yours. So what do you do then?
Do you confess your love to her and risk severing ties with her because of the awkwardness the confession could create, or should you just clam up and watch her as she’s whisked away by another smooth talker? Friends fall in love with each other all the time.
Sometimes, it’s a little crush that’s soon forgotten. And at other times, friends hook up or have a fling that eventually ends. And in the worst case scenario, the guy hides his feelings for this friend, until the point where she starts dating a new guy. And then, he barges up to her, and tells her that he really loves her and has always loved her, and wants her to love him! [Read: HOW TO ESCAPE THE FRIEND ZONE]
Well, this may work in the movies, but in real life, if you ever do something like that, you’re definitely setting yourself up for failure. She’s never known that you like her or desire her, and now out of the blue, you expect her to drop her new found love and start dating a guy she’s only seen as a friend for all these months or years? Really, does that even sound right to you?
If there’s one piece of advice you really need, it’s this. Don’t be brash and reckless and say things in the heat of the moment when you want to confess your love to a girl, and more importantly, don’t wait forever and expect things to just magically fall into place because you love a girl and don’t have the balls to fess up! If you want to confess your love to a girl, let her know what’s on your mind.
Well, just use these five easy steps, and you’ll see just how amazingly easy it can be.
#1. START TALKING TO HER: Is she a friend, or is she someone you walk past occasionally? The first thing you need to do is to find a way to get to know her better. Get her attention and make a great first impression when she’s around. Arousing a girl’s curiosity and making her think you’re a great guy can make things a lot easier for you. On the other hand, if you’re a shy guy who doesn’t like being the center of attention, you can always get to know her through her friends or through a common acquaintance.
#2. SHOW OFF YOUR FUNNY BONE: The easiest way to get closer to a girl and make her feel comfortable around you is by using humor. Girls love a guy who’s funny, and it works wonders with women because humor always takes the awkwardness out of any conversation. And even if there’s nothing much to talk about, making a girl laugh will make you memorable in her eyes.
#3. TEASE HER & FLIRT WITH HER: The easiest way to get closer to a girl and make her feel comfortable around you is by using humor. Girls love a guy who’s funny, and it works wonders with women because humor always takes the awkwardness out of any conversation. And even if there’s nothing much to talk about, making a girl laugh will make you memorable in her eyes.
Charm her and compliment her often. Let her see that you notice the little things about her that makes her pretty. If she’s wearing something nice, compliment her about it. If she looks great, tell her she looks really pretty. When you’re trying to woo a girl, always let her know that you find her attractive.
#4. GET CLOSE TO HER: Try to spend more time with her, especially when no one’s around. It’ll make her feel comfortable around you, and at the same time, she’d start craving for your company and miss you when you aren’t around. Try to do things together, call her often and ask her for her advice and help. Asking a girl for advice, be it about clothing, your life or anything else will always make her bond with you and get closer to you.
The biggest deterrent for guys when it comes to confessing their love is the fear of rejection. But think of it this way, the worst a girl could say is ‘no’. Of course, it’ll hurt. But it’s still way better than clinging on to a mad hope that she may see just how much you love her someday. By not telling a girl how you feel, you’re only making yourself feel miserable. And what would you do if another guy starts making a move on this girl you like? But whatever the reason may be, don’t ever let the fear of rejection hold you back from expressing your feelings. You’ll always regret hiding the truth from her.
Don't wait until its too late to tell someone how much you love, how much you care, because when they're gone no matter how loud you shout and cry, they won't hear you anymore.
As long as you follow these steps on how to confess your love to a girl, and avoid getting hasty or reckless at any point of time, you could surely make a great impression and make her like you even before you tell her that you like her!
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